I admit it I really don't know much about being a dominatrix...sure I can be a bitch sometimes but that's not the same thing. I've just come to that realization this week.
To be a better dominatrix I need to understand that it's not all about being mean, it's more of an understanding of my slave and how to control him. Realizing that he needs positive reinforcement as well as punishment.
My last experience in this world was nothing like this one. I really need to stop quasi comparing the two and put the past where it belongs...behind me and quickly move on from it.
I need to listen to my instincts more...isn't that what the whole principle behind the dominatrix experience - confidence and trust. It's about time I do more than walk the walk and talk the talk but actually know that I can do this rather than letting outside influences in and control me.
To be continued . . .
~Minxtress
